The less capacities you have now, the less likely that new ones are willing to open up.
Especially if the new capacities would alter your being and behavior dramatically.
If you are a woman, you probably have fewer capacities than men, because in most cultures women are an appendage to a man… even the Bible relegate a woman to companion status… not a full person.
According to Kabbalah women are the vessel, and men are the channel for the Light.
The vessel is all about receiving, and the channel is all about giving.
Whether it is an observation of Kabbalah, or it is programmed, I don’t know, but it sure looks like the desire for receiving for the self alone is stronger in women: women are the ball and chain for humanity to evolve.
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Capacities… what does it mean? How do you know someone only has a few capacities active? I was on a marketing webinar… actually it is still going on as I am writing this. The presenters are two brothers in Ireland… … Continue reading
Capacities… what does it mean? How do you know someone only has a few capacities active?
Superiority… The word comes up a lot in my coaching. Mostly in the context of your soul correction.
But in reality, some things are superior to other things… because all exists on many scales.
On the DNA capacities “scale” someone with 30 capacities is superior to someone who has 29, 20, 10, 7.
I haven’t found anyone with less than seven capacities, though I am sure there are.
So superior is not the issue. Acting superior is the issue.
It attacks people’s egos, the part of a human that makes sure the person survives. And as in any competition, it can get ugly. ((Ugly really appeals to the lowest common denominator. They are attracted to the low vibration, low capacity, brawn person… that is the problem in democracy: people who are low vibration, self-serving are elected by the low vibration, self-serving crowds. The same people who were so vocal answering my email with their imminent wisdom knowing what capacities mean, and such.))
People tend to cultivate the capacities that they consider an unfair advantage in the competition for survival.
In politics, it is mostly lying convincingly, trashing the other, promising, and such. In many areas that is physical strength.
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Superiority… The word comes up a lot in my coaching. Mostly in the context of your soul correction. But in reality, some things are superior to other things… because all exists on many scales. On the DNA capacities “scale” someone … Continue reading
Does having more capacities raise your vibration too?
What do I like about leading webinars?
Unlike other people, I don’t speak from what I know, I don’t speak from my mind.
Why this is something to like? Because every time I speak I surprise myself. I listen to what I am saying, and I am amazed, and often confronted.
Today the concept of appreciation was discussed: that “culture” makes you believe that appreciation is talking about things you like… but it is a lie.
Just like in mathematics every number has a value, zero, five, minus 15.
Appreciation is simply giving something a matching value.
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Teachers, and coaches, who themselves are high vibration and high achievers, I know a few, see you better than you are, and tell you that with a little, or a lot of coaching you can achieve the life you want.
But, unfortunately, we desire things we are not equipped to achieve, or are not willing to move towards.
Why is this?
Because it takes active, working capacities to do things. DNA capacities… capacities that you cannot learn… Capacities are not like knowledge. Capacities are not like skills. Capacities are either open or not open. If they aren’t open, they need to be opened, either by being in a do or die situation, where unless you use a capacity you don’t have, or you die… or by me… at this point I don’t know anyone else who can open a capacity.
There are 160 capacities in the human DNA, and most of them are dormant, inactive, not available to you.
Moreover, you don’t even know they are missing.
Remember the missing item exercises? Where we are trying to activate a capacity that is missing, by lying authentically?
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I found a picture, a meme, that when I found it I had joy in my heart. Turns out I misread it: it happens to me dozens of times, that I misread something.
The meme says: “Lord grant that I may always desire more than I can accomplish”
I thought it said …”that I may always desire only what I can accomplish”
Why? What is the problem with the first one? After all that is what they are telling you: shoot for the stars lest you end up with dirt in your hand…
But it is horse shit.
The problem is that you can only accomplish what you have capacities for.
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Every soul correction is about correcting the desire to receive (Light) for the self alone.
If you were born, you have a soul correction.
There is no jumping into “desire for the sake of sharing”, which selfless, charitable, do gooders try to do.
Being charitable, giving, do-gooding, selfless is NOT desire for the sake of sharing, it is just more “desire to receive for the self alone.”
As I am sitting here pondering one of my favorite students’ Reclaim share where she is proudly telling me that her husband walked in during the webinar, evidently hungry, she could courageously ignore him and not be interrupted.
You may not hear anything: I hear “nasty piece of work”, or simply: “desire to receive for the self alone.”
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In spite of The sight, and other capacities newly available to you, you don’t seem to be able to change…
You have been unsuccessful getting their guidance, getting your information from outside of the mind.
This manifests, among others, in the inability to muscle test correctly.
The question is why?
The phenomenon, what actually seems to happen is this: you understand where to look, how to look, and you nod rapidly. You bring great examples to show how you just succeeded in using the new capacity… but I can smell the mischief… you are trying to throw me off my tracking.
Now, I say “you” but who is this “you”? What aspect of a person am I talking about?
In this case, the dominant aspect, the ego.
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When crying/sobbing has no content, when you don’t know why you are crying, then something deep is clearing out.
When you know why you are crying, then some past gets confirmed and your ego will try and repeat it for you.
I watched a mini-series yesterday. It ended with a big surprise. It shook me.
But the sobbing came today. I don’t know why I cried. I don’t know if I was crying for the person in the movie, for you, for myself… I don’t know.
I have had nothing similar in my life… But I felt the regret, the shame, the guilt, the despair, the hopelessness, and the resolution… and these are universal for any misdeed.
When you hope to get through completing your past without thoughtless sobbing, you are being guided by Ego. Ego want you to pretend that you are doing what you need to do to get back to nothing… the only place from where you can build anything that lasts.
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