Because 95-97% of humans live as an object in a world of objects, they can’t see you as a person. They see you as they are…

So they can’t…

In my Validation Challenge where you have only one job: as you go about your life in the world and find something to notice, something of value, in people, whether you know them or not.

When people start out in the challenge, all they can see is what they don’t like. Then occasionally they can see something they like. That is still all about them.

The also want to get a response… they want what they say to land as flattering… that is also all about them.

Eventually, some of them will start seeing some value… just because they are looking hard for something