Your sphere of influence

I have lots of clients that struggle. One of the common characteristics I can find is the fact that they are trying to do something big, but are surrounded by small thinking people. Another one is that they have a small sphere of influence. And the third one is that they don’t know how to get more people to join their sphere of influence. You will never be able to do anything really big, if you are isolated, and the “echo” that you hear about you is from people who think you are small, insignificant or crazy. Many people go to seminars, they hang out with others there, but when they go home, they are back in their own backyard where they are considered just another wannabe. What is the solution? What is you ARE a wannabe, but have the potential to influence thousands? One great tool I found is twitter. And a great tool I found to build a list of followers is at , which is a free tool. If life worked like it is “supposed to”, it would build you a group of followers to the tune of millions, but of course life doesn’t work the way it is supposed to. But still, it is worth a try. All it takes is a minute or two…

Diets Don’t Work, In Fact They Make You Fat

Diets don’t work
I know, I know, I am not the first person to say this. but…

I myself heard the expression, for the first time, about 15 years ago. There was a book written by a guy who owned a gym, I think in Texas, and the book starts with one of the best lines in history, he said “I had to call in fat one morning…”

That’s very funny, right? The word you expect is “sick” so when he says fat, you crack up. At least I did.

There Is Something Wrong Here… The Human Virus

Human Being, perfect after its kind. This is a loose translation of what the bible says. When we look at ourselves and our lives, this is a nonsensical statement: we don’t feel perfect after our kind, we feel flawed, our lives don’t work, or at least not the way we want it, our bodies don’t work the way we envision perfection. So what’s up with that statement? How can it be true and so wrong at the same time

What is "Natural Growth" and how to Accomplish it, Spiritually, and in Business

Most of the people I know are either stagnating because they don’t put themselves in a situation where they need to grow, or they put themselves in the courses and seminars and coaching programs to grow, but they don’t grow because …

Shock Therapy

The strongest motivator for me is to think what it would be like on my deathbed if I died today. I always take several actions every time I imagine the scenario and my regrets. Here is a video that says it better than I could ever say. I bet you’ll have several actions as soon as you watch it. ZD YouTube FLV Player

I feel like a winner

I feel like a winner

Sometimes you spend an entire lifetime wishing for a certain feeling or a certain accomplishment, until, one moment, it hits you that you got it! By Golly, you got it. This is how it has been with “being a winner” for me.

How To Melt an 800K Debt? Begin it like this…

I am reading Abraham/Hicks: The Power of Deliberate Creation. I find one fundamental thing really useful, and I am surprised that this is the first time it occurs for me anywhere, but then again, I watch my students, watch my clients, and a I am no longer surprised.