Mindfulness? No. Meditation? No. Meditative living? Yes

It was my shopping day yesterday… Through bad design, I have my webinars on the same day as my shopping day. And yesterday I felt creamed by the experience. I dragged myself through, slept like a baby, but I am …

If you have a problem keeping your word… Part 2

I am finding out that you’ve been thinking in terms of to-do lists to get things done. I find to-do lists daunting. The biggest problem with to-do lists is that it kills the spirit in things. The second biggest problem …

Updated: When you don’t hurry, time doesn’t hurry either. When you are prepared you can afford to not hurry

Hurry is a reliable sign of the Fixed Mindset. Fixed mindset and growth mindset describe the underlying beliefs, the invisible part of the iceberg of your beliefs that crash the Titanic! you have about learning, effort, and intelligence. When you believe they can get smarter, you may understand that effort makes you stronger. Continue reading

Silencing your mind-chatter. The counter-intuitive path. Teaching pigs to fly

if someone else did it, your can do tooToday I am tired. I am in and out of bed, I need my rest. Why am I so tired? I lead a session of the From Upset To Communication course/workshop, an experimental course with no curriculum, except my commitment … Continue reading “Silencing your mind-chatter. The counter-intuitive path. Teaching pigs to fly”

I found myself saying: I don’t need you to be different than you are. Refuse to be governed!

refuse to be governedYesterday, at the Days of Power energy download, people were blocking the flow. In the end I had to remove everyone from the call, and do the download by myself. Today, when some of the people apologized, I found myself … Continue reading

A look at feelings… going under the hood. Here, knowledge is really power!

I have been saying in every article now that the 13th floor is a dynamic system. Why dynamic? Because the feelings have direction, content, opinion… and they interact, pull, push, stop you… Moving, changing, pulsing, etc. Humans are not simple … Continue reading

Take back your power, take back your freedom, take back your peace of mind

Starting tomorrow… at 4 pm.

Why it is nearly impossible to change… unless…

Landmark Education has a process for leaders called clearing.

Clearing is probably the most effective tool to, at least temporarily, allow for change.

Clearing is saying, listing, everything that is in the way of change… with the intention to question its trueness, question its validity.

People watch you, listen to you, and depending on their own attitude, they hear dumping, they hear gossiping, they hear complaining.

But the intention, the