Should you become a client? Would I even accept you as a client?

For decades one of my sore spots was that people refused to serve me, even though I paid them.

I remember saying to myself: my money is not good enough for you? and wept.

I had no idea how I “accomplished” that… in 20/20 hindsight it is still a little spotty.

What wasn’t clear to me, never even occurred to me, how my attitude effected the service provider. My “To what degree you think of yourself:” starting point measure was, at the time, 70%. From my behavior I would have guessed it was higher.

Mainly I overrode what they said. I argued, I knew better, I acted with contempt…

What I didn’t know then is that being a service provider needs to be a win, or no service.

A customer who is not happy is a

Create a life you love

Oh no! This video software that used to work doesn’t work any more. I cried out… This can happen to anyone. Technology changes so rapidly, keeping pace with it is both expensive and time consuming.

Sometimes there is an upgrade. Nowadays upgrades cost money… or the software developer simply abandoned you… and you are stranded with a software that doesn’t work any more.

I have been teaching what I teach for seven years. Teach people a world view that has been tested and true, and includes the invisible. This world view is sharply different from the accepted norms… but it works, instead of just being a nice theory like what psychologists and philosophers teach. Or even Landmark Educati

“They” want you to hope for a miracle… magic, windfall…

“They” want you to hope for a miracle… magic, windfall… And you have been compliant. You buy magical supplements. Start magical diets. Go to magical healers. Buy magical courses. Magic bullet. You have a storehouse of those. I recommended to a new client that she sells it to people who still want a magic bullet. […]

Updated: When The Monster Comes Out And Starts Doing Monster Stuff: What Will You Do? How will you raise your vibration back up again?

When The Monster Comes Out And Starts Doing Monster Stuff: What Will You Do? How will you raise your vibration back up? This is a five years old article… but for some reason it came up on my screen today… and it is apropos… A client was yelling at me. The article about the ass […]

Getting to the bottom of the iceberg… It is like the One Ring that controls all

I had an impromptu (unplanned) conversation with a long time client yesterday. Unfortunately my recorder decided to run out of battery… so I didn’t record it. This woman is one example of the perfect client for me. So what is a perfect client? A perfect client is one who is able and willing to do […]

Why are you not able to sustain sustain a new mindset? Sustain Change? Sustain Evolution? Sustain Growth?

Yesterday I spent 90 minutes with my coaching client. This is what I learned: You are not retaining any of the insights, any of the knowledge you read. And because my site, my programs need you to retain what you were taught, my programs, with you, are wholly ineffective. I already saw this when I […]

Anchor to doom, ET phone home… and connecting to Source

I didn’t plan to write about this… I didn’t plan because like so many things that have disappeared… what isn’t there is… well, isn’t there. But from time to time a client, a student reminds me… And that’s exactly what … Continue reading “Anchor to doom, ET phone home… and connecting to Source” Related Posts: […]

Tinnitus and energetic attachments. Can attachments be the cause of Tinnitus, the ringing of the ears?

I have one client with Tinnitus. Tinnitus is a noise you hear in your ear… It can be whistling, rustling, the sound of rushing blood… It can interfere with your sense of well-being. I have had a pulsing noise (pulsing … Continue reading → Related Posts: How do you get an attachment? Why some people […]

Who and what is making your decisions, your attitude, your behavior?

From time to time a student or client confides in me that they resent being told what to do. I find that really funny, especially when they paid me well for telling them what to do. But such is human … Continue reading →

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The connection between your vocabulary and your deserving factor

The connection between the number of words you can correctly use in writing or in speaking and your intelligence, your worth a damn factor, and your deserving the good life… or not.

I am a reader. I read a lot. But yet, a whole new world opened up for me when I started to read on the Kindle. Why? Because it has a built in dictionary. As a result, I have added, to date, 2,000 words to my vocabulary.

It was very cumbersome to read with a dictionary before… I would lose my place, etc.

But the Kindle has made it possible.

I find the word… but sometimes the word in the dictionary is not useful.

I am reading Seneca, the person with whom my teaching of how to live life, how to be happy, i