Is it worth it? Is it worth the bother, the effort, the work?

I had an insight yesterday. One of the reasons people don’t like to try new things is because they cannot judge whether they can do it or not. Whether it will be easy or not. Whether it will be pleasant … Continue reading “Is it worth it? Is it worth the bother, the effort, the work?”

The Integrated Good Life & The Four Pillars Of Eudaimonia

Plants are integratedThe Integrated Good Life & The Four Pillars Of Eudaimonia Eudamonia: the fulfilled life. The satisfying life. It’s a how… It’s about how much life you have in your years. Fulfilling the potential that you are. It’s impossible to have … Continue reading “The Integrated Good Life & The Four Pillars Of Eudaimonia”

Are you disappointed with yourself for not being higher minded, and achieving more in life?

be an empty spotFor years I’ve seen that humans, humanity, are stuck in a place where happiness is impossible, accomplishment is not predictable, and health is touch and go. I’ve had big hopes, selfish hopes, that I will be the one to unstuck … Continue reading “Are you disappointed with yourself for not being higher minded, and achieving more in life?”

Is the fixed mindset a sign of courage deficiency? Can you turn on courage?

If you can’t measure it it doesn’t exist. The world’s population is divided. A small part tries to get results through effort, and the large part is trying to sail on their innate abilities alone. People in both parts have … Continue reading “Is the fixed mindset a sign of courage deficiency? Can you turn on courage?”

Updated: When you don’t hurry, time doesn’t hurry either. When you are prepared you can afford to not hurry

Hurry is a reliable sign of the Fixed Mindset. Fixed mindset and growth mindset describe the underlying beliefs, the invisible part of the iceberg of your beliefs that crash the Titanic! you have about learning, effort, and intelligence. When you believe they can get smarter, you may understand that effort makes you stronger. Continue reading

When the mind takes over perception: you see only what the mind allows you to see

change-the-way-you-look-at-thingsYour mind, your IT, your “I” in the fixed mindset won’t allow you to see what is not favorable to your self-image. This results in you living the life of an underachiever, without any sense of self, without any sense of adventure, Without any sense of being alive. you are thing in the world of things… pushed around. Coaching can unstuck you… Continue reading

Want to see me? Instead of just reading my words…

How to find your real self… instead of honoring your false self as yourself

As I have written before, the book I am reading now is the Metaskills. The author is a designer, and looks at life through a designer’s glasses. The article “You live in a world of your own design” is one … Continue reading “How to find your real self… instead of honoring your false self as yourself”

Silencing your mind-chatter. The counter-intuitive path. Teaching pigs to fly

if someone else did it, your can do tooToday I am tired. I am in and out of bed, I need my rest. Why am I so tired? I lead a session of the From Upset To Communication course/workshop, an experimental course with no curriculum, except my commitment … Continue reading “Silencing your mind-chatter. The counter-intuitive path. Teaching pigs to fly”

More on health testing: your eating style

With regards to your health, what you eat is important. We all know that. But when you eat, what environment you eat in, and how you eat what you eat seems to be as important, or maybe even more important … Continue reading