What is your Self, your Dharma? Can you find it? Can you define yourself?

I have been doing a lot of work while I seemingly do nothing… or not much. Something is driving me… I used to say it this way: “I can’t do no other”… I am very fond of weirdly worded things, because they poke a hole in the cultural fabric and allow things to be seen …

The only way to affect real change is to change the root cause of what you want to change.

The Three Great Mysteries: air to a bird, water to a fish, mankind to himself ~ Hindu Proverb We live in an age where, we could say, are poised to move our inquiry into areas where it could make a … Continue reading “The only way to affect real change is to change the root cause of what you want to change.”

Why do women, why do mothers, hold you back under the guise of protecting you?

I always ponder why things are the way they are. I ask why more than once, more than three times… I ask and look. One question that makes me ask why a lot nowadays, why is it that certain cultures … Continue reading “Why do women, why do mothers, hold you back under the guise of protecting you?”

Are you disappointed with yourself for not being higher minded, and achieving more in life?

be an empty spotFor years I’ve seen that humans, humanity, are stuck in a place where happiness is impossible, accomplishment is not predictable, and health is touch and go. I’ve had big hopes, selfish hopes, that I will be the one to unstuck … Continue reading “Are you disappointed with yourself for not being higher minded, and achieving more in life?”

When the mind takes over perception: you see only what the mind allows you to see

change-the-way-you-look-at-thingsYour mind, your IT, your “I” in the fixed mindset won’t allow you to see what is not favorable to your self-image. This results in you living the life of an underachiever, without any sense of self, without any sense of adventure, Without any sense of being alive. you are thing in the world of things… pushed around. Coaching can unstuck you… Continue reading

If you are feeling out of sorts, weak, maybe have blurry eyes, or see stars…

you are sweating out your essential mineralsIf you are feeling out of sorts, weak, maybe have blurry eyes, or see stars… Also disturbed sleep… This spring has hit me differently than all the previous springs, because I have been more aware than years past. And I … Continue reading “If you are feeling out of sorts, weak, maybe have blurry eyes, or see stars…”

When you have to move on…

In 1975, somewhere early spring, I was hugging my soon to be ex boy friend as hard as I could. He packed his car and was moving back to his parents. I was sobbing. I told him I loved him. … Continue reading “When you have to move on…”