A good tool keeps on giving, and giving, and giving

When you find something good, then hold onto it, make it your permanent tool or partner. How do you know if what you have found is a good thing? This can be in any area of life, health, wealth, love, … Continue reading “A good tool keeps on giving, and giving, and giving”

When you have to move on…

In 1975, somewhere early spring, I was hugging my soon to be ex boy friend as hard as I could. He packed his car and was moving back to his parents. I was sobbing. I told him I loved him. … Continue reading “When you have to move on…”

Your password… how it tells me a lot about you

What do your passwords say about you? I get to see your password, at least when you sign up. Otherwise they are encrypted, so I can’t read them. Most of you could be “diagnosed” from your password on my site. … Continue reading “Your password… how it tells me a lot about you”

Who do you like? Who do you love?

Or here is another question for you: Who are you? If you asked back: What do you mean? you did the smart thing. Because the question: who are you? can be asked from so many vantage points, we can spend … Continue reading “Who do you like? Who do you love?”

How do you pick a life philosophy, how do you pick a guru?

Tons of people come to my site to read my valuation of many gurus’ vibration. When they are done, they choose… How they choose, what they choose says everything about them, not about the guru, not about the method, not … Continue reading → Related Posts: Choice is: selecting freely, AFTER consideration. More on being […]

Who are you being? What is the beingness that informs your actions?

Who are you being? What is the beingness that informs your actions right now? Your being is a paradigm and things show up consistent with that beingness. I speak often about turning points in my life. Turning points are points … Continue reading → Related Posts: Turning Points Part 2: commit to life What is […]

A piece of the vibration puzzle just fell into place

Today was one of those days where the plenty resulted in only confusion and nothing got finished. I started four articles, and ran out of steam, or focus, or attention after half a page or 120 words. I was a … Continue reading

How some questions you ask will determine your whole life, the moment you answer them

This morning I have been experiencing an emotional roller coaster… as I am cycling through tens of people as I accidentally connect to them. Some gurus, Murakami, his wife, a marketing guru, my next door neighbor, my brother, some students, … Continue reading → Related Posts: The unanswerable question trap: it holds you by the […]

It’s hard but it is not hopeless… Filling the holes in your education

I have shared with you my experience as an architect… what ultimately failed me or made me fail… and want to quit. But I’ll repeat it here, in the wake of a TED talk I just listened to: the tendency … Continue reading

Do you matter? Does your life matter? What is the most important skill to learn so your life will matter?

Mattering is a feeling. Nothing matters and everything matters. But if you don’t feel you matter, if you don’t feel your life matters, then you’ll live consistent with that… Some mornings it is hard to write an article. Ultimately, when … Continue reading → Related Posts: The secret of doing something important How to have […]