Never practice surgery on your family and other lessons for life…

662311125cd60dbfa86171ea8e68a6b3Developing the habit to look before you leap

You have habits, thought patterns, beliefs, practices that guarantee that your life will not change, especially won’t change for the better.

When you do a course, read a book, or talk to a coach, you want to do and change the most important thing about your life: drop 30 pounds, start a new business, or leave your husband.

You are unprepared.

You are like a medical student: you need to practice surgery on cadavers before you cut open your mother or father… translating for those that can’t see the forest for the trees: you need to develop the practices that are building blocks for a good life.

Reality: collective hunch at best

There is a reality out there… most likely. but what it is? who knows… Our filter or translator between reality and our mind is words. What we can’t put words around, we can’t see. The natives could not see the Santa Maria because they didn’t have a word for sails, or big ship… they had word for ripple in the ocean,