You can be very happy with your life and grateful for its many blessings while simultaneously desiring more. _ 1 There is a whole group of people that specialize in helping you find your deepest desire … the desire that has enough energy to motivate you to take risks, to learn new things, to become an expanding and happy human being. And every class they teach, one or two people claim they found what was an authentic desire for them, but we never find out if that desire had enough energy for them to get over the hump