Some days my work is to work through issues that you, my dear reader, especially students and clients will need, so they can keep their capacities I activated active.
One of these capacities is self-trust.
Self trust is not like confidence. It doesn’t say (add soothing eerie voice here) You can do it. That is probably a lie.
No, it says something different. It says: you can handle it. Namely, whatever happens to you, you can handle it.
The “job” of the capacity is to make you unstoppable. To allow you to take the actions you need to take to get where you need to get, without being stopped by the fear of the unknown… What will happen after the action.
But what is the range of what you can handle? Is it everything, or you are going to pick and choose, until you are going to be stopped, again, by every thought of the aftermath.
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Clueless
My first foray, my first venture into joy or joyous is trying to figure out what joy is. After all we don’t know necessarily what words mean when it comes to feelings… do we. We, children, watch and learn… but in a world where what you see is a mask, what you see does not represent a feeling accurately, because the person isn’t feeling it, because the person is faking it, the looks don’t help.
