Can you be crying and be unphased? Does the White Lotus cry?

the white lotus, the symbol of being unphasedCan you listen to insults to your family, your god, your country and be unphased?

Can you watch death and grieving and be unphased?

I am unphased 91% of the time. Very few things pull me out of the equilibrium, where I need to recover so I can return to being well and unphased. All of them I self-created, none of them are real.

I cry a lot. I feel people’s grief, I feel centuries old sadness, I feel the pain of not being allowed to grow, or even to live.

I am re-reading an book about the story of a family, the Levis, through 800 years of persecution.

I first read it 35 years ago. I remember it pulled me right out of equilibrium then… I had a very little idea who I was, and the book added to it in an unsettling way: I decided that I was one of the 36 men who were bearing and absorbing all the suffering of the world.

I felt proud, I felt justified, and I was sad. I cried myself to sleep night after night.  I was self-righteously indignant.

It was just before I took off for Israel.

I also had the thought, in the back of my mind that the story of the Lamed Vov is a story the majority invented to not have to be responsible for their suffering.

But I was pulled out of my equilibrium, to the direction my soul correction dictates: I am special. And into the direction my floor dictates: I am useful for something, you can’t kill me now.

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How many pieces of information can you play with in your brain? Do you have a keyhole view of the world?

What is real thinking, as opposed to having thoughts, or recalling what someone said someplace?

I have been pondering.

My method for pondering is this: I play Freecell, so I am tied to my computer, so I must be sitting. My hands are busy, my eyes are busy, even my mind is busy.

The part of me that does thinking, on the other hand, is free. Free to do, what I call thinking or pondering.

I read a lot, and oftentimes I muscle test if it is true, but some things, moral, ethical, real spiritual things I like to see for myself.

Osho says somewhere that the understanding man doesn’t think, because the understanding man sees.

It is easy to see that if the thing to see is outside, you don’t have to think, you see. Red is red, and blue is blue. You see it.

But when the thing is inside, you need to set it up to see. So the understanding man can set up structures in their brain to look at. You need to use your random access memory (RAM), the instant memory function of the brain, to set up what you want to see.
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The 40 golf ball method of growing yourself and your life

How 40 Golf Balls Can Make You a Better Entrepreneur I found the following article on Linkedin. And I thought that publishing it, without editing it is a good idea, because the lesson the guy teaches, is showing where and … Continue reading →

Read more here:: https://yourvibration.com/21403/the-40-golf-ball-method-of-growing-yourself-and-your-life/

      

What happens if and when something turns you from spiritual flying to spiritual falling? How can you reverse it?

spiritual free fall after the holidaysAn interesting phenomenon: people who have never had any spiritual capacity activated, do better, fare better than “advanced” students.

Of course this is not true for everyone.

What is the difference, the crucial difference that I see?

It is whether they are in falling, whether they are flailing, or have hit bottom.

“Beginners” have hit bottom. They know it. There is no doubt about it. Unless they get that new spiritual capacity working, life will stay the same, and they will conine to feel alone, misunderstood, and rejected.

The “advanced” people, especially if the holidays put them in free fall mode, and it seems to me, that every one of my students is in that mode, they want to go back into flying… and it’s not working.

  • If you are a bird, you can fall and recover, and fly again.
  • If you are an airplane, you can fall and pull out of the fall, and fly again.
  • But if you are human, you have to hit ground to be able to take off and fly again.You have to go back to where you started, and even slightly below it.

You now have seen the enemy, if you have, and know that there is a floor on which you live, a floor that is based on a lie.

The lie, that you have been trying to fix by doing this spiritual work, cannot be fixed.

Lies cannot be fixed. Only what is real can be fixed.

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Did you have a long holiday? Spent a lot of time with family?

returning-to-the-dark-sideSome capacities, especially the ones that are your main soul correction capacities, are hard to keep on.

What does Source have to say about that?

There are different reasons.

Reason #1: You need more capacities turned on before you can tackle the “big one”.

Any capacity dealing with your Dark Side has huge support from the Dark Side, namely the Opponent.

One student is trying to keep on the capacity Generosity. Generosity is the Desire to receive for the sake of sharing… the opposite of Desire for the Self Alone.

Any and every area can be the battle field for this… And this student has it in spades. Every and all areas.

She was attempting to exercise “no judgment”, i.e. allowing another’s light shine. But she caught that she continued doing that, tearing everyone else’s achievement down, after she did judged.
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Why do I use harsh language, why do I provoke you all the time? Or how do you grow a self?

provocation18One of my jobs in causing transformation is to be an agent provocateur… to provoke people in my articles, on my webinars… keep on provoking.

Everything that upsets you drives up some way that you are off… off from the Tree of Life.

One recent occurrence was provoking Canadians about Canada.

Canadians are very sensitive about their country… just like a fat woman is sensitive about being called fat.

When you are offended… you can be sure that you identified with something outside of you… and don’t have a self.

In order to do this work, you need a crystallized self… as Gurdjieff said.

I have no idea what that means, but no self is definitely not that… lol.

The slightest wind upsets you… you have no core, you have no toughness… you’ll never grow, until you grow a self.

How do you grow a self?
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You can lie to yourself, but you can’t lie to me or The culture of “good enough” — time for rest or fun

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One of my students wrote to me this morning. He said: Ok I finished my billing the other day but something I didn’t catch yesterday and this morning I got caught in my lie of not generating I relaxed. I … Continue reading →

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Don’t Pee on my Leg and Tell Me It’s Raining or how to become someone responsible

Don't Pee on my Leg and Tell Me It's Raining

I borrowed that expression from Judge Judy, because I like it. But it is also perfect, because Judge Judy calls for responsibility… to no avail… Why? Because responsibility is a capacity encoded and dormant in human DNA… only a few, … Continue reading →

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The work of activation is a lot like sex.

The work of activation is a lot like sex.

If you force it, it is rape, not sex.

So when the going gets really tough, when you find yourself stupid, let up… allow yourself to breathe.

It needs to be voluntary…

I am watching a bunch of you forcing, as if you had to… whatever.

If you are ready, and muscle test said yes, then allowing the muscles relax, allowing yourself to feel safe, and try again later is the way to go.

How much later? An hour?

Read the original article: The work of activation is a lot like sex.

You bought a 3-day coaching from me… email coaching, to keep the newly activated spiritual capacity alive. And I can feel that you are waiting for me to do something.

spottingIf we were in sport, you behave as if the coach’s job is to come pick you up drive you to the field, and tell you what to do.

What is coaching?

Coaching is the coach making you do what you don’t want to do so you can be all you can be.

But… Only someone who is in action can be coached.

So, unless you are doing what you think the assignment is, you are not in action.
Unless you report to me what you are doing and how you are doing it… you are not in action

You paid for coaching, but coaching is impossible… because coaching begins with you doing and letting me know.

I know you meant to hire me for $25 so that I can do for you what you are not willing to do. That is not coaching, that is saving, rescuing, and no matter what I do, your capacity won’t stay open, because you didn’t do what you needed to do.
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