When you find something good, then hold onto it, make it your permanent tool or partner. How do you know if what you have found is a good thing? This can be in any area of life, health, wealth, love, … Continue reading “A good tool keeps on giving, and giving, and giving”
In 1975, somewhere early spring, I was hugging my soon to be ex boy friend as hard as I could. He packed his car and was moving back to his parents. I was sobbing. I told him I loved him. … Continue reading “When you have to move on…”
Or here is another question for you: Who are you? If you asked back: What do you mean? you did the smart thing. Because the question: who are you? can be asked from so many vantage points, we can spend … Continue reading “Who do you like? Who do you love?”
Who are you being? What is the beingness that informs your actions right now? Your being is a paradigm and things show up consistent with that beingness. I speak often about turning points in my life. Turning points are points … Continue reading → Related Posts: Turning Points Part 2: commit to life What is […]
Today was one of those days where the plenty resulted in only confusion and nothing got finished. I started four articles, and ran out of steam, or focus, or attention after half a page or 120 words. I was a … Continue reading
This morning I have been experiencing an emotional roller coaster… as I am cycling through tens of people as I accidentally connect to them. Some gurus, Murakami, his wife, a marketing guru, my next door neighbor, my brother, some students, … Continue reading → Related Posts: The unanswerable question trap: it holds you by the […]
It is said that there are only three types of people. (The illustrations I use in this article reveal more patterns, so pay attention, please) 1. make things happen 2. observes things happen 3. ponders what the heck happened. This … Continue reading
It’s been coming up with more and more frequency: We don’t know what it looks like to be good, to be kind, to be independent, to be happy, etc. I wrote recently about my quest to become a kind person. … Continue reading → Related Posts: I have decided to learn kindness. Could reading Charlie […]
We live in a culture that wants answers, certainty, security, and abhors uncertainty. We live in a culture that we want instant results… and we act accordingly. So my work doesn’t appeal to many people, because I am an experimenter. … Continue reading → Related Posts: The biggest challenge in transformation and a free video […]
How do you know you don’t have a Self? And if you don’t… what is missing? As with everything in life, things are never completely this way or that way. All physical laws are only 100% true in imagination: in … Continue reading