Learned helplessness, this is today’s topic. The opposite of “Bring it on…!” Your life depends on which is your dominant attitude.
Which attitude will get you what you want?
No contest, I hope, learned helplessness will get you more of the same.
50% of the world’s population behaves like they can’t handle it. It is learned helplessness… it is not innate. But it feels innate…
But it is, in reality, a reflex built and initiated by parents, religion, school, and politi
I have been getting attachments. I am noticing, they come mostly on the weekends.
So the sender or senders are working slobs… and tormenting people is their hobby.
They are, I think, using voodooo techniques: making a model of me, and pushing pins in the model.
The reason I think it is a voodoo doll, because they are getting very precise, whereas a healer who intends to heal, is very sloppy, otherwise why would they connect to another they intend to heal in their eyes, throat, of sinuses… would make no sense.
So yesterd
What is deserving? Deserving is a comparison. Comparing value to value, a person, a performance, a thing. It doesn’t come with existence. In existence you need to earn what you get. Deserve it.
Too many teachers focus on the doing, the method.
Some designate a few minutes, maybe even a few chapters to the mindset, but all in all, the pitiful results of most course is proof, that the problem is not in the doing.
One of the problems is being deserving.
There are two ways to look at deserving:
When you become aware of your urges… a feeling that urges you to do something, mostly to relieve a tension, a pain, a fear, you’ll probably find this fear of being left out, being left behind.
Urges make you do self-destructive, self-damaging things. Things that when you watch other people do them, you shake your head.
Fear of being left out, fear of being left behind has an age associated with it. It’s young. And your behavior to “fix it” will be young too.
The Detached capacity is the gateway to heaven… and the gatekeeper to heaven. All ways to heaven, to higher functioning, to human beingness lead through this capacity…
It’s very interesting: whenever I start a new course, or a workshop, suddenly everyone gets quiet.
They are waiting for the other shoe to drop. What shoe? lol… so see if it works… holding their breath.
Anyway, the workshop started this morning, and I enjoyed it. Even I learned a lot…
The first session (o
If you look on my site, I have more than 2000 articles. All meaty, full of information.
Ok, let’s look at that.
What you read is falling into your mind and makes you feel smarter, or stupider, and smarter again. But will you ever get what you want from reading? No. Will you get the illusion that the more you know the more chances you have for success? Certainly.
But here is the issue: What you read (information) falls into your morass. Morass is like mud. Not necessar
All those sensations are in the horizontal aspect of me. We could call it “my head”, even though the feelings are in my body. But it’s shorter and more popular to say “I am in my head” than to say: I am pulled into my horizontal, lower self. Right?
I am working on creating a communication course, but first things first:
So I am going to do weekend workshops to teach you how to get unstuck.
The workshops are designed to teach you to use the Detached capacity to get you unstuck in the moment.
Having the capacity is nice, but unless you know exactly what to do with it, it works only like a remedy: in the moment. Whereas true getting unstuck means that you start moving.
The purpose of the workshop is to get you from your stuck state to where you are moving and starting to create a life worth living.
Your first session will include the activation of the DNA capacity: Detached. And me checking that you actually know how to use it.
The Detached capacity does not automatically detach you… just lik
Very “interesting” experience. I watched the first year of Dexter, and although I wanted to watch all episodes, the first year was not addictive.
But I had a premonition about the rest of the series.
Made up by skilled television writers, I knew it was going to be something dangerous to my well-being.
Unneeded complications, many different side-story lines, all dramatic and irrelevant, all stories I would not watch Netflix for. But all of these side-stories had a claw as sharp as the tiny hooks of burr… of v
One of my students wrote to me this morning. He said:
Ok I finished my billing the other day but something I didn’t catch yesterday and this morning I got caught in my lie of not generating I relaxed. I now know I have to be more aware of this now.
Oh that… the hidden reason so many quit. The hidden reason why people quit before they get results. The hidden reason life is a series of flashes in the pan for most people.
It can be best illustrated with a story I have shared time and again, but it fits here perfectly.
The dog wakes up one morning a